Do you like to complain?
Today I’m gonna talk about the mental program that is complaining.
Ask yourself, do you keep pointing out things you think are wrong with the world or with your surroundings? Does your complaining makes others feel uncomfortable, or even makes them avoid you? Do you wish you could stop complaining (except for when it’s really necessary)?
Sure, there are moments when complaining is totally justified – a rude cashier, a lousy product, or bad customer service. I’m not saying that you should put up with nonsense.
But if you’re not careful, complaining can quickly turn into an undesirable habit. You start spotting every little thing that’s wrong, and it becomes your habitual reaction. If your loved ones keep hinting (or outright saying) that you complain too much, or you’ve even realized it yourself… maybe it’s time for a change?
It’s simple – the more you complain, the more you train your brain to look for any reason to complain. And before you know it, it’s a full-blown habit.
Do you know what complaining causes?
By complaining, you create illnesses in your body. You accelerate the aging process. You create heavy scenarios in life. Complaining leads to sadness and arguments. You lower your self-worth. But above all, it causes diseases and aging. Why? Because you show this to yourself – by complaining.
How is complaining created?
Of course, it’s created through the vibrational patterns you receive at home. From your parents, your environment.
Notice how you feel when you complain. It’s grinding inside you. It’s simply doesn’t feel true. So why do you want to complain? It’s generally unpleasant. If you’re going to complain, for example, that life is unfair, it’s not nice to feel that way.
What to do when people around you are complaining?
Change the subject. In general, it can be said that the more people stop complaining, the better job you’ve done with yourself. The more you are in a space of wonder and satisfaction, the more people want to listen to you because you have changed.
And if they are complaining very strongly, it means that there is something in you that is also complaining. So don’t choose that. Say to them, “I prefer to focus on myself and my pleasures. It’s a waste of time to complain. Let’s talk about something else.”
Therefore, work on yourself and observe when others complain. Most often, they are telling you what you think about yourself – that life is hard, that you still need this or that. It will then fade and eventually disappear as you work through it.
You just need to say to yourself, “Okay, they are still complaining around me. How does this affect me? I would like to change this. I would like to fix something.”
It’s about drawing conclusions even from this. The purpose of complaining as a mental program is to trigger a burst of joy in life. When a person is consistently satisfied, continually speaking beautiful things. And then, how wonderful is to meet such people? You’re delighted with everything.
There is no space for complaining. There is only appreciation for life, the value of another person, love, being moved, pure miracles! We need to learn about these miracles, and for that, we were given a program called complaining. It is a trait we often have, so it is quite a strong program. But above all, watch whether it affects you.
What this is about? It’s simply about being yourself, and it’s a matter of how much you are what you say. Unfortunately, complaining causes everything to be unintentionally manifested by what you say. Complaining can program us a lot, so we must be very careful about what we say and think. So watch whether you’re saying ‘it’s too hard for me’, ‘it’s difficult for me’, and in general, ‘life is terrible’.
You can say it in such a way that everything should open up. So open it. For example, if you were fired from your job, say that it’s a way to find a better one. Don’t complain.
It’s important that you really pay attention to what you say and what you think. For example, ‘Oh, and I just said that life is hard. Oh, I said that it’s difficult for me.’ Focus your attention on what you’re saying. And practice it.
And when you sense that the complaining program is kicking in, soften this program with love, and say, ‘And I don’t choose that anymore’.
An affirmation to stop complaining
This active affirmation helps you to break the habit of complaining. It will make you switch the focus from negative to positive sides of situations you encounter and people you meet.
The affirmation encourages you to speak beautifully.
So, close your eyes and say:
I delight in every thought and every word.
I choose to live beautifully.
I choose to speak beautifully, because it is beautiful.
I choose to think beautifully, because it is tender.
I choose to feel beautifully, because it is wonderful.
I choose to speak beautifully, because they build beauty.
And that’s an important statement – ‘I choose beautiful words’. When you meet someone and they are complaining, you can simply say, “I choose to speak beautifully, because beautiful words create a beautiful life.”
